Division Essay

Well I have been contemplating in my mind on what truely makes a good housewife/soccer mom. I mean not that I'm either or plan to be either any time soon, but there seems to be such conflict with both and so many standards. I mean do all housewives/soccer moms really have to be all perfect and alike? I think not. Everyone lives a different life and people seem to judge more sourly than positively on moms and wives these days. For example I love kate gosselin from john and kate plus eight. But it seems I am the only one because everybody else in the world thinks she is not a good mom just because she works and is not with her children every second. And this whole image of the wife/soccer mom staying home all day with the children and having dinner ready for her perfect husband every night? Give me a break what happen to women having careers? Maybe more men should stay home. And then there's the whole thing that men are the head of the household. When really even though the image doesn't seem politacally correct these days, women most likely should and are the head of the household.

Now on the subject of kate gosselin, I mean she is a wonderful mother in my opinion and was a wonderful wife before the divorce of her husband john. I mean yeah she was a little snappy with eight kids but wouldn't you be too? I know I would be. And because of that snappiness everyone has blamed her for everything. When really if they'd stop being judgemental and actually see that she's a great mom and is always spending time with her kids. People need to cut the crap and stop judging. These so called perfect wives/soccer moms should probably stop judging so much and following the tabloids and spend time with there own stinken families!

And I'm pretty sure that women are just as powerful as men now. I mean wasn't there a womens revolution. Aren't women aloud to vote and work alongside men now? Yes they are so why are they expected to stay home all day and play little miss perfect wife/soccer mom. I mean women can be just as good if not better at any job that a man can do. And should be able to persue a career that theywant to. Maybe the almighty dads should stay home and let the wives/soccer moms have a go at doing what they want to with a career.

And on the subject of all men are head of the household. Thats bull, pardon my almost french. Men would not be able to hold up the household if there wasn't women. Like going back to kate gosselin, I'd like to see her ex husband work a full time job and take care of all eight kids and keep up the housework, and help with homework, and give baths every night. No I really don't see that happening at all. It's a joke really I think women should stop letting men think they are head of household because they really are not.

Writing this essay I don't want you to think I'm sexist or anything. Because I'm not for sure. And it's true that in some cases men can be head of household, but thats only because there married to a pea brain woman. But really women should not be judged and try to be formed into the perfect house wife/soccer mom. I mean everybodys different and everybody lives a different life and people should realize that.

process essay

I begin with entering my liven room with such dismal boring white walls. I look around at the boring walls I will be soon starting the process of painting. There will be lots of things to do such as moving all the furniture out of the room, putting newspapers down on the floor to prevent paint on my tiles, and lastly painting the walls a bright beachy yellow. Now this procedure is going to be a long tiring and in my opinion boring. But I am also anxious to see if i find any lost treasures clearing out the furniture, you never know with my house!

Now moving all the furniture out of my liven room is quite the process I must say. Especially when you have no help trying to move a full couch out that of course will not fit through the door straight. It has to be tipped up on its side which is very dangerous because I can be quite the clutz. And sure enough I drop the couch on my toes and scream like a little baby. Now the rest of this part of the procedure goes smoothly with everything else being light and going through the door easily.

Now the next step in this process is to lay down all the old news papers I have been collecting for months for this occasion alone. They go down easily as you can imagine this is quite the easy process. But when my puppy and cat discover what they decide to be there new playground and go tearing around the newspapers while I'm in the other room it turns out to not be an easy process. All of the news papers that I had just layed out are now turn and strewn everywhere. While the puppy and cat just look at me like, "what did we do?" And, "oh you didn't lay this down for us to tear up?" Well needless to say I can not bring myself to spank them as much as I would like to and I just put them in my room and shut the door.

And now for the gruiling painting job. This is what I have been not looking foward to for months. With all the stupid trim work and painting around my stupid fire place and laying a new border down on the the top of the walls. Well it's a mess. I end up dumping bright yellow beachy paint all down the front of me and it soaks through the news papers on to my floor. It was such a mess and actually ended up taking me two days to complete. For I realized I did not have the patients to complete it all. But eventually about a 100 paint spills and splatters later I did complete this long process.

Now I did not find any lost treasures when I was moving the furniture out. Well unless you count the 4 dust bunnys which I named, frank, joe, lisa, and linda, there really wasn't anything exciting found. And laying papers down was not nearly as easy as I thought. And the painting not as quick as I hoped. But hey its done and I feel accomplished. Oh wait now it't time to paint the lousy kitchen.